is blaming all we can do ?

we as people .. tend to blame others ... i started realize this fact is true .. instead of taking the time to reflect on what went wrong or what wrong we did , we rather put the blame on others. some sort of self denial ..

its weird how human can try to change their mind to denying what they don't want to see or hear . the minds are so complex that no one can ever figure it out.

we also tend to stick in one side of the thinking instead of searching for another way out just incase the option we have don't work.

i wonder why